My dialogue with the Buddha

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My dialogue with the Buddha

Stone asked: what am I to find the person I love my wife? Or should find people who love me and be my wife? Buddha smiled: this issue The answer lies in the heart of your own. Over the years, allowing you love very tough battle, make you feel life fully -
fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Student Groups allow you to keep moving forward, is the person you love? Or people who love you do? -
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stone smiled: a friend tried to persuade me to find a girl to do what I love my wife .-
Buddha: If any case, since your life will be doomed to mediocrity! you used to love the process of constantly pursuing to improve their own. you -
not to chase a person you love, your self-improvement also slows down the pace .-
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Stone grabbed the Buddha's words: If I catch it I love people? Could it be ... ... ..-
Buddha said: because she is the person you love, so that happiness and joy of her life and continuous efforts. happiness and happiness is not the limit, so your efforts will be -
no limits, will not stop .-
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Stone said: I live not that hard up? -
Buddha said: so many years, do you think you hard? -
Stone shook his head and laughed again. -
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Stone Q: If so, then is not to treat my loved one do? -
Buddha shook his head and said: You need to treat the people you love you do? -
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stone a wry smile: I think I do not need .-
Buddha said: Tell me about your reasons .-
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Stone wrote: I love the more stringent, that is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I do not need it inside a mixture of sympathy, mingled with compassion, I asked her is from the heart of love -
me. Sympathy, compassion, tolerance and patience though a kind of love, though also brings a sense of happiness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but it is I hate them -
's. If her love for me mixed with these, then I would prefer her not to ignore me, or directly deny my love, I come in and out to the -
time, because the feeling is only deeper and deeper, and despair than hope to reality, because the pain is the moment of despair,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and hope the pain is unlimited -
period .-
Buddha said: well, you have to say the answer! -
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Stone Q: Why I used to love a girl, she in my eyes is the most beautiful? and now I love a girl, I often find that long -
pretty girl than she does? -
Buddha asked: Are you sure you really love her, in this world you love her most of the people do? -
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stone no hesitation in saying: Of course ..-
Buddha said: Congratulations, your love for him is a mature, sensible, sincere and profound .-
stone a little surprised: Oh? -
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Buddha went on to say: She is not the world's most beautiful, even you are so in love with her, because you love not only her beautiful youth, to know Shaohua Easy -
passed away, the roots of the old trade, but your love for her has gone beyond the surface things are beyond the years. you love her whole people, mainly her independence -
one goes for the heart. -
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stone could not help saying: Yes, I really love her purity and goodness, to sympathize with her childish. -
Buddha smiled and said: any test of time for your love is nothing. -
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Stone Q: Why was together, two people who previously made no passion, more of an interdependent? -
Buddha: it is because your heart will love have been subtle changes to family ┅ ┅ -
stone touched the head: family? -
Buddha went on to say: When the love to a certain degree of time, it will unknowingly into a family, you will gradually her as one of your life -
part, so you'll have some more tolerance and understanding, and only family is your God from the beginning to the scheduled birth, but also you have no choice, -
so you do later, only to adapt to your family, no matter how noble you were born, you have to accept them do not speak any conditions, and they -
responsible, good for them. -
stone thought, nodded and said: family is indeed the case. -
Buddha smiled: Love is because it is mutual appreciation, which began as heart and fell in love, as inseparable from each other and get married, but the important point is the need width -
tolerance, understanding, habits and adapt to, life will work. -
stone silence: The love is a fate. -
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Stone Q: When university I once met a girl, that time I loved her. But that time she did not love me; but now she loves -
on me, and I am now does not seem the kind of feeling before, or that I seem to have not love her, why is there such a situation? -
Buddha asked: you can do yourself no longer think of her from now on it? -
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thought for a stone: I think I can not, because so many years, I always think of her intentionally or unintentionally, or when the students gathered about her consumption -
interest, I have a extraordinary attention. She received a letter or phone when my heart is strange excitement and tension. Over the years single -
reason is because she has never been forgotten,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or to her standards I was looking forward to my future girlfriend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but I now do -
not like her. -
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issued a long sigh of the Buddha: Now you did before you even though there is no change in appearance, but your heart has gone through a long journey, and -
or that you love for yourself put a realistic and rational mind. You do not like you she is only due to the mind. Knot is the need themselves -
resolve, we must know the past lives of five hundred times Looking back only in exchange for this life pass by. People always want to have a choice, as to how to choose or to your own -
decision, who can not help you. -
Stone said no more, just look quietly look into the distance. Original Buddha is not a panacea ... ... -
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Stone Q: In such an era, such a society, a person like me to work so hard to love a person, is it worth it? -
Buddha said: you think? -
stone thought, speechless. -
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Buddha is also a short silence, he finally spoke up: the road since it is their choice, you can not complain. You can no regrets. -
Stone took a deep breath, and stone that he understood. His eyes looked at the Buddha with a firm look, no more. -
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