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Wysłany: Sob 6:13, 19 Mar 2011 Temat postu: that practice is not deep |
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Network is a free to come and go, free to advance and retreat, no legal norms and moral constraints of the virtual world, online dating is over in the network architecture, in line with human nature, an emotional need. The virtual, online and security doomed, secret, with no accountability, but also doomed the online and not solid, stable and non-uniformity.
online dating are two, one is met on the network, the network falling in love, refused to walk into a reality; the other is the network as a platform in the network met in real love, this love affair from the network to reality, not uncommon in life, this love, to finally get rid of the network tradition, marriage has become the best outcome.
we are talking about online dating, from the strict sense should be the first one, that is the Internet met, fell in love online, regardless of marriage.
What is online dating? Online dating is sitting in front of the computer of the two opposite sex, with typing, audio or video means to share feelings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], express love to each other, and affectionate kind of love.
since ancient times, marriage is a strict and ethical values, human biological restricting the spread of casual lust, which the number of people detained some instinctive physical desire. Thousands of years of customs and deep-rooted moral and institutional constraints,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], creating a human civilization, civilization has a lot of behind the fact people were suppressed instinct of lust. When the network in the new era under the impact of new technologies, suddenly opened the door for people, when the nature of the pursuit of freedom who saw a glimmer of hope in an instant, so the network will have a fresh, new and impulse stimulation, Then there is also a feeling of vertigo.
regular Internet users who are most likely to talk about online dating.
early access to the Internet, often look to online dating is very sacred, very solemn, so deeply are often very persistent inputs, the long discovered that the original emotion here, but only a free market, precious and cheap feelings abound.
deep depression, that do not understand the network, love the cut, that practice is not deep, there are three or five years which have seen the Internet who will fall in love, in the eyes of the old worms, but online dating is a pediatric game, as beginners who play online games, like infatuation. In fact, just new to the Internet, ignoring the virtual network and uncertainties, online dating is like night and opening night-blooming cereus, a beautiful moment, but not for long unbeaten. When online and again and again experienced loss and disappointment before finally understand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the original online dating and love has nothing to do, but just a game, a dream.
I can not say the network did not love, I can only say that most of the online dating and love has nothing to do.
What is love? Love is the instinct, desire for the physiological basis of the appearance of the primary attraction, sexual attraction, attractive deep into the heart of a process. The real attraction of love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], including gender, sexual gratification, two hearts Affinities, but also spiritual, moral, ethical and life.
the only one ---- the spirit of online dating, online dating is a kind of spiritual love of two opposite sex, a spiritually guided by the imagination of a real life to make up for missing, if the spirit love is love, then this love, it must be unhealthy morbid incomplete.
people are a soul, the soul of life more often than the body needs a higher level, people living in the world although there are three pro-six relatives, although there are seven friends Friends of Eight, but the soul is lonely and alone. Met a person no matter what kind of pain, hardship, suffering and the twists and turns, must be his own souls and bodies to take on alone to face the depths of the soul of each person are in fact an orphan, all need someone to love. Social guidance material and utilitarian thought to human feeling deficient plaques, the lack of integrity of the whole society, so in real life, it is difficult to find a side that he is willing to open themselves to the soul. So more people will find a lonely place when the talk, so it is easy to find on the network of people with his empathy, not understanding people on the network, but your subconscious to each other in components into a kind of imagination.
many people in the bottom of my heart has a narcissistic plot, the performance of online dating is a narcissistic, the other side of the opposite sex may be very common, perhaps simply do not know the other side of the 1234, but the other side of a sentence , or if a certain kind of let their voices get lost, and this confusion there are too many to imagine a mix of ingredients, so imagine his heart is dormant for a long time, they desire and demand a shadow, but also the heart desires a refraction.
online and all kinds of people, some people is because the heart needs to be a true love with the feeling that this demand can no sex, no desire, as long as a spiritual friend is the creative partnership. Online and people like that are often eager to perfect love, not in real life they are subtle love each other, so eager to meet a network can be attentive care of his own understanding of themselves, to get a higher level of spiritual sublimation. Can not deny that Plato's like online dating is really beautiful, but the beautiful thing is often difficult to meet, such a pure spirit of love on the network very rare.
most of the online dating just need to find a stimulus to at heart, always capable of arousing the feeling of waves and vibrations. They are different on the network with the opposite sex romance, typing, voice, hugging, kissing, do some dubious moves, then say something disgusting, in order to achieve some sort of physical impulse and satisfaction. We can not say that such people immoral, and perhaps the person you fall in love, in life will be a follow rules, law-abiding good husband, maybe he could be a pious, powerful government officials. But the network gave him a secret room, making his biological instinct is not binding in the spread of malicious environment. If the person is also an animal, any animal has an animal instinct that he needs, so we need the system in need of legal marriage need to restrain the desires of people unable to contain. The network itself is a place where there is no moral constraints, there is no one to one marriage, can not ask who is loyal and who can not see who is loyal. Therefore, the characteristics of the network online and determine the uncertainty and not unity, there is the phenomenon, since we can not deny the existence of reasonable, then we should be rational understanding, sober face.
people are selfish, so in real life, the network is the same, stuck in the online and in person, hope the other side is a passionate man, is a people person, and do not want this situation The intention to share with others. No one wants to see the man himself 恋着, while 恋着 N sex outside of their own, but they can not really bound, so the courtship will often lead to suspicion, and often disappointing, in fact, the reason there is such a disappointment, online and at the beginning, when our minds are clear, but do not want to admit that the total does not imagine good things will happen in their own body, but also imagine there will be a miracle, an exception, the other side of that people must have been feeling the best people, not passionate, not a playboy.
fact, both men and women in the world, essentially helping them, and the opposite sex will be tempted to see better, but not necessarily emotionally inviting. In fact, to the beauty of a distance, perhaps the U.S. will come more longer. Rarely seen on the network everlasting love, the network has not seen till the end of the lovers. Do not believe a woman infatuated man on the network, only one person on your sweet, lustful men also do not think that a beautiful woman, and you just a flirt. Social reality can not be detained for a paper marriage to live a wandering heart, not to mention such a loose network environment. In real life there would prefer to die die for love of the duck, both on the network who are willing to die for their love of men and women to see?
network itself is a mixed place, often heard people say that so and so immoral, so and so and so deceived. In fact, this better not say a word, any kind of online dating can not stress occurs in the others, and must be willing to want to try your own. Knowing that the mountains are the tiger, knowing that the road trap, we must learn from the tiger back and take the trap to go around,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so the tiger bite, and fell into the trap, the only show that their eyes are not bright, self-cultivation is not deep, it is best not to and then the tiger will eat people around yelling.
everyone is going to be empty and lonely way to seek some sustenance, some people choose to gambling, some people choose to the tobacco and alcohol, some people choose the game, and others selected text. Just as some people are willing to put the feelings in the safe, the hide, and some people have put on a fine rack feelings, flaunting, and some people will put their bags on the feelings, the walking on the road abandonment . Do not say that good that bad, are their own personality dictates, but also their emotional needs.
Ah Q is not like the little nun, but because he was bored, Qingzhao not very words of love, but because she lost, not so immersed in the happiness of a woman, would chant verse.
online dating is a reasonable and humane, to see the nature of the network, should know the uncertainty of courtship and non-specific. If you really want to fall in love, we must understand the rules of the game, to know and love has nothing to do online dating, speed connection. If you care about winning or losing, then do not participate, the network is not wrong, nothing wrong with online dating is also on the network of men and women are not wrong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], erratic emotional sustenance needed a place,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but how you choose. Online dating is just a special kind of network of various derivatives of the game, not necessarily a walk in the red light district are all clients, handwriting, you can enjoy the sustenance and distraction for us a variety of ways, it is important not to condemn it kinds of games is reasonable or not, but to manage their hands and feet.
I thought: online dating has nothing to do with love!
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